FAQ For How This Works For Matchmakers
This is the section where I will post answers to the most common questions I get from people.
1. Are you serious? Is this for real?
Yes. This website costs me money & time. I would not waste my time or money on anything I wasn’t serious about.
2. How do I know you will really pay me if I find a woman that becomes your girlfriend or wife?
Because I’m a man of my word. Besides, there’s a good chance you will be a friend or relative of the girl you introduce me to, so I don’t think any type of dishonesty would be a good foundation in which to build a relationship on. If you are really skeptical about if I will actually pay you or not if you are actually successful at finding me a girlfriend, then I am willing to go to the courthouse with you and we can have a legally binding contract written up and signed & notarised before a judge or clerk there. I really don’t think it’s necessary to go that far, but it is a step I am willing to take if that’s what you require of me to trust you will be paid.
3. Why don’t you just join a online dating site like E-Harmony, Match, POF, OKCupid, etc, etc, etc.
I’ve tried all of those sites off and on over the last couple years and they just don’t work for me. I went out on a small handfull of dates due to them. Half of them were women I liked and would have liked to had a long term relationship with, but they never seen me again after the first date or two. The other half I went out with on those sites all had issues, ranging from drug use to being bi-polar. Other women would message me on those sites but I refused to even meet them to to either A. They were unattractive and overweight. or B. They had “issues”. It is my firm belief that most women on dating sites are so unattractive they just don’t have many options in real life so they hide behind a screen. Or they just have too many issues. There’s usually a reason why a woman would look for a man on a dating site. It’s usually because she has tried to find a man in real life but couldn’t. This is usually due to her appearance, or to other issues. Many women on dating sites have mental issues and are very unstable, many do not even have a job. Many are gold diggers just wanting to use men for their money. Many are on there just to play mind games with men. Many are bi-polar or have substance abuse problems. If a woman has so many positive things going on for her in her life, she certainly would not feel a need to go to a dating website, that in itself is pure desperation. It’s also a signal that they must not know how to have healthy long term relationships with men if they are having a difficult time finding a man that will stay with them. Online dating has just proven to be a total waste of my time & money, I have tried all the sites, paid subscriptions, several times each, for long periods of time. I am 39 years old now, time is running out, and it’s time to try new things that may actually work. I want a normal woman, that is not on any type of dating site.
4. What defines a girlfriend to you? How many times, how long do you have to go out with a girl before you pay me?
In order for you to get paid, you are going to have to find a girl that has interest in me, that I am also interested in, and a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship will have to become established before you will get paid. The amount of time that takes depends upon the chemistry the girl has with me. Everyone is different. Not everyone does things at the same speed. Some women are slower than others when it comes to things evolving into a actual girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. You do not get paid anything just because you give me a girls name and number. You do not get paid anything just because you introduce me to a girl at Starbucks, we exchange numbers and then go out on a date that week. You do not get paid anything just because you set up a date for me to go out with a girl and she decides to have sex with me on that date. That would be considered a one night stand, that’s not a relationship. I’m not looking for sex. I’m looking for a relationship. But of course sex does have to happen for it to be considered a real girlfriend/boyfriend relationship, and it has to happen on more than just 2 or 3 seperate occassions. The girl has to get to a point where she considers herself girlfriend status, meaning we are in a exclusive long term relationship. See, these rules I’ve put into place right there, they should weed out all of the people that are just trying to make some fast easy money off of me. You would be surprised of some of the emails I have already gotten from people! One guy even admitted to me that he is a pimp, but that he can find me a good girl, not some ho! He actually said that to me in a email!!! I would NEVER date a girl that has EVER associated with any type of pimp, thug, white trash or whatever else you wanna label it as, never! See I read some emails that have been sent to me like that, and I could just tell right away some people are tring to con me out of my money! They think they will just get one of their skank friends to sleep with me a couple times and pretend to be my girlfriend for a week or so and then split the money together when they get paid! But I am here to tell you right now, that sort of thing is not going to happen, not to me it’s not! So if you are some scammer or liar or con artist, look elsewhere because you won’t get a dime from me! I am only going to pay for the REAL thing. And furthermore, as I was outlining above, I will only pay for actual RESULTS. As I stated before, all women are different, so I can’t give you exact number of dates we must go out on or length of time we must see each other before you get paid. But, I can give you a rough ballpark estimate…. I am thinking it’s going to take at least 2 months to 4 months to establish a real boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It takes time for two people to get comfortable enough to be intimate with each other, and it takes time for two people to get to know each other. It takes a certain amount of time for people to even know if they want a long term relationship with each other or not. That’s just a estimate off the top of my head. Could take less time or more time though. But if & when it happens and evolves to that point, I will know, the girl will know, and I will let you know and pay you at that time. It’s also entirely possible that you could introduce me to a girl and we go out a few times but I just don’t hit it off with her or she dosen’t hit it off with me, in that case you would not get paid. I only pay for results. A long term relationship. That’s why I can pay as much as I’m willing to pay here, because I’m only going to pay this amount ONE time. Now of course if you set me up with a girl, we fall in love within 3 months or so and I pay you the $1,500, but then a few months later she breaks up with me or I break up with her, YOU STILL GET TO KEEP THE MONEY! A deal is a deal. And I realize nothing in life is set in stone forever, you can’t control how long a woman stays in a relationship with me, all you can do is hope for the best in that situation. But my point is, once I get in that official relationship, and I pay you, no matter what happens down the line in that relationship, that money is yours to keep.